In bed, light out, eyes closed, your brain says, “Hey, do you think that conversation you had with your friend today was okay? Did you say something stupid or maybe hurt her feelings somehow?” Are you free to rest? You reply, “Shut up, I’m trying to go to sleep.” Your brain continues, “But what if…”

What comes to mind when you see the word gather? Most of us think of getting together with family or friends, and especially now, these thoughts can stir up sadness and longing.