Any purpose is going to require personal interactions. Learning to listen is essential to being successful in our relationships.
Everyone wants to be heard and have their words and feelings validated. Although it may sound like a big job, to listen is simply being willing to take the time to focus on them. And everyone has a story.
One thing I love about meeting new people is learning their story. Several months ago, I met a petite lady with a very sunny disposition. Early in our conversation, I learned she had worked as a nurse in one of the largest prisons in our area for 30 years! Now that is something I would have never guessed!
I know several people who visit our local nursing home once a week. Generous with their time and attention, they go room by room just listening. One guy I know takes his dog with him to visit, too. What a blessing to an entire generation that seems forgotten.
Honestly critique yourself as a listener. Are you really hearing what is being said or are you trying to think of the next thing you are going to say? Are your responses just about yourself or are you asking questions about what the other person just said?
In particular, use a communication skill called Active Listening which helps you give your full attention while trying to understand what the other person is saying. Practicing these tips can help you have more meaningful conversations and create harmony.
I put together a downloadable PDF for you called Be an Active Listener!
Could you find your purpose by listening?
“Those who listen to instruction will prosper; those who trust the Lord will be joyful.” Proverbs 16:20
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